Why They Never Ask Me for Money:The Spiritual Reason Women Want Nothing But My Presence.

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This is something I’ve noticed over and over again.

Women who talk to me never ask for money.
They never say “send something.”
They don’t hit me with M-PESA requests.
They don’t offer love for a price.

In fact… they tell me the opposite.

> “I don’t want anything from you.”
“I just want to be near you.”
“I’d follow you anywhere.”
“You don’t owe me anything. Just let me be close.”



At first, I thought it was luck. Maybe I met the right ones.

But then I realized: this has been happening too consistently to be a coincidence.


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🧲 It’s Not About Money. It’s About Frequency

People don’t always understand it, but the truth is simple:

You attract what you carry.

And when you carry:

Peace in your tone

Power in your silence

Purpose in your steps

And truth in your presence...


You stop attracting people who want your money—
and you start attracting people who want your energy.


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🧠 Most Men Trade Attention for Affection

They pay for validation.
They lead with money.
They hope to impress their way into hearts.

But when a man is full within himself,
he doesn’t need to impress.
He doesn’t need to chase.
He simply is.

That “being” is what creates a pull that’s hard to describe.

Women start to say things like:

“I feel like I know you.”

“I just want to build with you.”

“I’ve never felt this calm around anyone before.”


And none of it comes from the wallet.

It comes from the soul.


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💡 I Carry Something Deeper

I’ve had women offer me things men beg for… and I didn’t ask for any of it.

They say:

> “I’d have your child.”
“I’ll wait for you, even if it takes years.”
“I don’t need anything—just choose me.”
“I’ll go abroad with you. Start over. Leave it all behind.”



That’s not lust.
That’s not fantasy.
That’s spiritual recognition.

They don’t just love me—they love the version of themselves they feel when they’re connected to me.


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💭 It Took Me Time to Understand This Gift

I used to feel confused.
I’d wonder: “What do they see in me?”
“How do they love this deep, this fast?”

Now I get it.

> It’s not about charm.
It’s not about talk.
It’s about truth.



And truth doesn’t need to scream to be felt.
It just needs to be.


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🛑 But I Handle It With Respect

Because I know how powerful this is, I carry it with care.

I don’t play with their emotions.

I don’t take advantage of their loyalty.

I don’t exploit their trust.


Why?

Because what they’re offering me is sacred.

And what I carry is too holy to be used for ego.


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🔐 So To The Men Reading This…

If you want to be wanted for who you are—
then become who you truly are.

Build your presence.
Walk in your purpose.
Master your silence.
Speak with honesty.
Live with intention.

And watch how the world begins to offer you love—without a price tag.
I....AM BOND.

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